tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-22271407245501638162024-03-12T20:45:40.088-04:00Faith Time OutHelp With Your Luke Warm FaithBobhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/13402267185036231974noreply@blogger.comBlogger10125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2227140724550163816.post-67394867334179820422011-08-31T21:02:00.000-04:002011-08-31T21:02:53.499-04:00A SECULAR OUTRAGE<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: large;"><br />
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<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: large;">Yes, I know, Christians are suppose to watch the anger thing. However, there comes a time where a little righteous anger is called for. Mayor Bloomberg of New York City has crossed the line in two of the most absurd and irresponsible decisions ever made by a public official. Here we are approaching the ceremony for the 10th anniversary of 9/11 and not only has he not allowed first responders to participate but all clergy have been barred as well. This is the same mayor who is sanctioning the building of a mosque next to ground zero. The outrage can't even be explained by his secular viewpoint.</span><br />
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<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: large;">Of all the memorial events that take place across this country none cry out more for the need of a presence of clergy than the recognition of 9/11. To exclude clergy from the recognition of 9/11 is like excluding clergy from Easter. The the wrongful death of thousands of people by radical Muslim terrorists goes against everything people of faith believe in. Be it Christian, Jew, Muslim Buddist or whatever faith, they all died in this travesty against humanity and deserve to be present for the memorial. </span><br />
<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: large;">Mayor Bloomberg is trying to slide in his valueless secular personal agenda. As he is not a man of faith he apparently feels that no representation of faith is appropriate. OK, he has his personal viewpoint but he does not have the right to make his personal viewpoint the rule of the day. He is a mayor, not a dictator.</span><br />
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<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: large;">Aside from the affront to people of faith, it is a total outrage to exclude the presence of first responders. Who could possibly have more of a right to be present at the memorial than the first responders? I would certainly hope Mayor Bloomberg reconsiders his absurd decisions to exclude first responders and clergy from the 9/11 memorial recognition. I would encourage everybody to voice their opinion to Mayor Bloomberg. He needs to be advised to pull his head out of his backside and do the right thing.</span>Bobhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/13402267185036231974noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2227140724550163816.post-24177089119240440592011-07-29T06:30:00.000-04:002011-07-29T06:30:30.951-04:00GOD MUST BE SAD<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEi048YM3b1YnqMQ_Gb1Mi42Xs8TbTC1bUAKJUaZslMC0Xlky9FCm4WfYg9C6TUQlO7GrHpm8DaTB0ikPFuCDCNW11v-KI7lHckJCArU3AaT4_3X5yTu-FGKNbiAik918i9IBRFpWbh7Lqc/s1600/2011_0507forgettechurch0024.JPG" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" height="320" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEi048YM3b1YnqMQ_Gb1Mi42Xs8TbTC1bUAKJUaZslMC0Xlky9FCm4WfYg9C6TUQlO7GrHpm8DaTB0ikPFuCDCNW11v-KI7lHckJCArU3AaT4_3X5yTu-FGKNbiAik918i9IBRFpWbh7Lqc/s320/2011_0507forgettechurch0024.JPG" width="240" /></a></div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: large;"><br />
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<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: large;">It has become expected that each political candidate will make obligatory proclamations of their faith. Rather ironic when so many go out of their way to emphasize the mythical separation of church and state. Never the less, all political candidates, left or right, seem to find God in some way during their campaigns. Many after obtaining political office seem to go out of their way to avoid or even actively push God out of the picture. So, does God think a little political "spin" to gain political office is OK? Does massaging the truth hurt anything to get your way? After all everybody does it and it almost expected, right? What about trust! It's quite clear, "If you obey the Lord, you will always know the right thing to say. But no one will trust you if you tell lies."</span><br />
<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: large;">Proverbs 10:32 (CEV) Unfortunately, it would seem few of our political candidates, be it Presidential, Congressional on down to the local government level are familiar with this verse. The truth warping and questionable professions of faith are no less offensive after they gain the office the seek.</span><br />
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<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: large;">We are in a time in our history when it is becoming more obvious every day that our federal government is broken beyond repair. Nothing could illustrate this more than the current debate over the massive deficit. There has never been more disgusting display of politics before people in our history. Common sense has been pushed aside and the lust for power and concern for saving political positions is the primary goal, not the right thing to do. So, how's that separation of church and state working for ya? I can't help but feel the current display of hate, weasel wording, false accusations and anything goes to get your parties way with total disregard for what is best for our country must make God sad.</span>Bobhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/13402267185036231974noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2227140724550163816.post-34586185509088627162011-07-07T06:33:00.000-04:002011-07-07T06:33:47.815-04:00SECULAR LONELINESS<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiorn5EK_QjHnx9k9UlHHYgW9Fm4WCx3V02R3mENH2dBDW7WOz1C5y_st8slO73btOoJtz-faaJYwFL-nQsMdTWjA80EeRYgrEeHrJl207SmJdwLS2MqyKo2Ok7jED2pLcB_NAiOfQqlLw/s1600/2011_0507forgettechurch0044.JPG" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" height="320" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiorn5EK_QjHnx9k9UlHHYgW9Fm4WCx3V02R3mENH2dBDW7WOz1C5y_st8slO73btOoJtz-faaJYwFL-nQsMdTWjA80EeRYgrEeHrJl207SmJdwLS2MqyKo2Ok7jED2pLcB_NAiOfQqlLw/s320/2011_0507forgettechurch0044.JPG" width="240" /></a></div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: large;"><br />
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<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: large;">OK, you think Christians are whacked out zealots who live in fantasy land. You can't see God or, in your mind, the things Christians say he has done. You think Jesus probably was a nice well meaning prophet. You only believe in what is here and what you can see. The thought of an afterlife, is just another fantasy to you. When you die that's it, you just become worm food. You consider yourself among the fact based thinkers of today who's lives revolve</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: large;"> around social networking. Well, good luck with that. So where do you go when your world starts to fall apart?</span><br />
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<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: large;">Unfortunately, being human comes with a touch of arrogance. I guess it's and inborn thing that when we get smacked in the face with a problem our first instinct is to try to jump in there and deal with it by ourselves. After all, we are taught, hopefully, to be fairly self sufficient. To be problem solvers and to deal with life's problems is what we are supposed to do, right? The old "can do" spirit! Fine, so how's that been workin out for ya Sunshine? Most of the time when we jump into solving something life has tossed at us we tend to not want to ask for help until we have it messed up beyond belief. You have probably worked yourself into an anxiety attack and now don't know what to do or where to turn. Wouldn't it be nice to have someone to ask for help and to share your problems with?</span><br />
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<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: large;">fantasy the one who is there for you twenty four seven, offering peace of mind. I guess you can keep on thinking you can solve all your own problems while you keep digging the hole deeper. Seems to me you just end up with a deeper hole.</span><br />
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<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: large;">Why would you not consider accepting an invitation that just reaches out to you offering help for all problems. "Come to me all you who are weary and burdened, and I will give you rest. Take my yoke upon you and learn from me, for I am gentle and humble in heart, and you will find rest for your souls. For my yoke is easy and my burden is light". (Matthew 11:28-30 NIV) How can you not find peace in those words?. Why not accept this invitation form Jesus and find the peace he can bring. You wont have to face anything alone again. </span><br />
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<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: large;">All you have to do is ask. "Ask and it will be given to you; seek and you will find; knock and the door will be opened to you. For everyone who asks receives; he who seeks finds; and to him who knocks, the door will be opened." (Matthew 7:7-8 NIV)</span><br />
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<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: large;">Let's look a the pastor shuffle. It's kind of a pastor whack-a-mole game played by some denominations. A church has a problem with a pastor or the powers that be think a pastor has been at a church long enough. Whack! That pastor is shuffled to another congregation and a new one pops up on the doorstep of your church. Has a problem been solved or just passed on to another congregation? Have you lost a pastor that seemed like family just because the hierarchy feels the need to solve a problem someplace else by moving your pastor to solve another churches problems? Should pastors be uprooted and moved just because they have served a congregation a specific number of years?</span><br />
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<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: large;">congregation, yet proclaim </span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: large;">they know who and </span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: large;">what </span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: large;">is best for your congregation. Unfortunately, we have had several problem pastors over the years. Why? Primarily from the practice of fixing problem pastors by just moving them to another church. Of course they usually take their issues to the next church but hey, the problem is solved in the church they were moved from. At least in our denomination, another pastor is then dumped on your doorstep. The congregation has never met this pastor, know nothing about this pastor and have had no choice in the process of pastor selection. There's a good chance you have just received a pastor who was also moved because of a problem in their previous church or you have received someone who just does not want to live where you are located. So, instead of receiving a pastor that solves the previous problems you have had, you are about to have new ones created. Arbitrary assignment, without a congregation even having the chance to meet or interview a new pastor is ridiculous. But according to the powers that be, the problem is solved. In their view, YOU have a problem congregation.</span><br />
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<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: large;">Finally, as in our case, a pastor has come into the your church who is a perfect fit. A few minor irritations at first which is because of the change thing, which church people hate. But then you and the pastor figure each other out and you can get on with church life. A perfect fit. You grow together as a family. The pastor knows your family and watches your kids grow, helping them along the way. Your church is doing what churches are suppose to be doing, bringing people closer to the Lord, supporting each other. No more upset stomachs and time wasted in meetings dealing with pastor problems. The pastor is part of your family now and things are running well. The pastor has earned your trust and is there to share your joys and help you cope with the valleys life tosses at you. A few years pass and you know that anytime, the main dude in the church hierarchy is probably painting a bulls eye on your pastor because he has been there the maximum six years. For whatever reason, you know his days with your congregation are numbered. The guy who has never been to your church and knows nobody in your congregation is wise enough to take your pastor, who has become family and move him someplace to fill a slot where another pastor has been for six years or has a problem. True genius at work. The pastor doesn't want to leave. He's become part of the community and the congregation doesn't want him to leave but the Grand Poobah says, "Times up! You now have a new calling! I say so!" So, once again, you start the process. The pastor you know and rely on is gone. You need to start the process all over again. Maybe God, not the Bishop, will bless you with someone who can grow with your congregation. Then again, maybe not. This pastor whack-a-mole type of problem solving is one of several important reasons the traditional denominational churches are shrinking while non-denominational churches are flourishing. Times are changing as is the face of worship. The traditional denominational churches need to take a better look at their internal procedures. Try serving the congregations instead of dictating to them.</span><br />
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<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: large;">A couple thoughts come to mind. Jeremiah 23:1 tells us, "Woe to the shepherds who are destroying and scattering the sheep of my pasture" declares the Lord. Then again, maybe we are to welcome and embrace a pastor who may not be a perfect fit. Maybe after all, it's a test of your congregations faith? A second quote comes to mind. I don't remember where it comes from but it makes sense. "If you want a better pastor, pray for the one you have." But, never forget, if you don't volunteer to share the load and prefer to sit and complain, you become part of the problem. Be active and supportive within your church. Work to change things where needed and don't be afraid to voice your opinion to the church hierarchy. If there are enough voices praying, anything is possible.</span><br />
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<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: large;">Shut up and pray, it's important! Prayer is our most important link to God so don't take it lightly. But, for a change, stop jabbering at God with all your wants, sorrows and thanks, and let him get A word in now and then. Chill out a little and just relax and let God speak to you. You might be surprised at the inner peace contemplative prayer can bring to you.</span><br />
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<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: large;">These days our lives are so stress filled we tend to carry that over into our prayer life. We are so intent on telling God all the problems we have and what we are worried about that we don't always receive the peace that can and should come from our relationship with God. OK, take part of your prayer time, stop talking AT God and let him get a word in. Just shut your mouth, take a deep breath, relax and listen. How do you expect to hear God's answer if you don't give him a chance to speak to you?</span><br />
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<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: large;">Contemplative or "listening prayer" is a powerful way to help get the clutter and stress out of your life. Isn't that something that is worth a try? There is a wonderful DVD available on this subject. It's title is from Psalm 46:10, "Be Still and Know That I am God". This is a wonderful experience on the subject and a lesson on how to basically strengthen your relationship with God and bring an inner peace to your life. Some of the presenters include Beth Moore, </span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: large;">Dr. Henry Cloud, Max Lucado, Richard Koster, and others. It is available through Christian Book Distributors online at Christianbook.com . I've used this DVD with my own small group at church and they loved it.</span><br />
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<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: large;">The key element in contemplative prayer and any prayer is finding a certain time of the day, every day, where you can spend some time alone with God. </span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: large;">Oh sure! I have a family that is demanding my time and just where am I going to get the time and a place to do this? Granted, it is not always easy if you work and then come home to a family and the duties of running a house. But that is just the point, you need to get a few minutes to yourself to spend with God. If your life has you too stressed, you are not doing yourself or your family any favors being all up tight. So, make it clear that these few minutes are your time and you are not to be disturbed. Yes, even if you have to resort to locking yourself in the bathroom to find a quiet moment. If you are fortunate enough to live in a warm climate maybe a nice outside location or wherever you can find a few minutes of peace. If your family isn't willing to honor this small request maybe it's time for a family meeting to discuss respect.</span><br />
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<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: large;">You have found your peaceful place, now what? You probably have a normal prayer routine. Maybe just take part of it, be quiet and listen. Maybe even have some soft background music to help create a calm atmosphere. Just close you eyes, relax and let God guide your thoughts. You might be surprised at what you learn about God and yourself.</span><br />
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<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: large;">I'm not suggesting this as a substitute for your regular prayer routine</span><br />
<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: large;">but something you incorporate into it. Of course you want to pray to God and discuss your life with him. You still want to study the Bible. I mean, after all, the Bible is our instruction manual for life.</span><br />
<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: large;">The use of a daily devotional book or publication is sometimes helpful as well. Personally, I love starting my daily prayers with reading the daily scripture and testimonials found in "The Upper Room". We still need to bring our thanks for blessings, our concerns for others as well as our own personal concerns to God each day. Just take a moment, for God to speak to you as well.</span><br />
<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: large;">Relax and let God get a word in too. So, turn off the ipod and pull the ear buds out of your head, use whatever threat you feel is appropriate to keep the kids away for a few minutes, sit down, just chill </span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: large;">and see if you can tune in to God. It's a great recipe for inner peace. Just remember the Psalm, " Be still, and know that I am God".</span><br />
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<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: large;">The thing is, it causes guilt feelings because people know very well the Bible tells us we should be tithing. In Leviticus 27:30 we are told, "A tithe of everything from the land, whether grain from the soil or fruit from the trees belongs to the Lord; it is holy to the Lord". That seems reasonable to most people. However the sticking point that causes the inner discomfort seems to be the amount of 10%. For some reason, the amount seems to get into the burden category. I hear the response, "I can't do that, I have bills!" So where does the 10% figure come from? Again in Leviticus 27:32 we are told, "The entire tithe of the herd and flock-every tenth animal that passes under the shepherds rod-will be holy to the Lord". In verse 34 it goes on to say, "These are the commands the Lord gave Moses on Mount Sinai for the Israelites".</span><br />
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<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: large;">This also is where we get into the reaping and sowing thing. This is a key element of tithing and it is to be done cheerfully. A good example is Proverbs 11:24 where we are told, "One man gives freely, yet gains even more; another withholds unduly, but comes to poverty. This is a real test for us sometimes. There's a big stack of bills on the table and I'm supposed to still cheerfully give 10%?</span><br />
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<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: large;">Here's where the faith and trust in the Lord comes in. Remember the poor widow in Mark 12:41-44? She gave just two small copper coins, but it was all she had to live on. Jesus used this for an example of faith for his disciples. Telling them it's no big thing for a rich person to give more because they had wealth to give but the poor widow gave everything she had.</span><br />
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<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: large;">While tithing 10% at first seems unrealistic, I think you will be amazed at the results. Keep in mind too, God provides this money for us in the first place. Time after time when talking to people that tithe, I get a similar response. Even when it seemed uncomfortable because they had other expenses facing them, they tithed. Guess what? They were still blessed with more! It works! God does provide for us when we are cheerful givers. We are guided in this decision in </span><br />
<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: large;">2 Corinthians 9:7-8 where we are told, "Each man should give what he has decided in his heart to give, not reluctantly or under compulsion, for God loves a cheerful giver. And God is able to make all grace abound to you, so that in all things at all times, you will abound in every good work. </span><br />
<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: large;">I can tell you from personal experience, when I've been a little nervous about tithing but did it anyway, the Lord has always provided. Just try it and see what happens. After all, God tells us you will be blessed with more. So, what's the problem? Don't be afraid of the "T" word. The rewards are amazing.</span>Bobhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/13402267185036231974noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2227140724550163816.post-84130015362125180192011-05-27T06:38:00.000-04:002011-05-27T06:38:37.335-04:00DEATH BY "HOT DISH" or POT LUCK ROULETTE<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEglFuJSfww0rX-63P81gtWrPIhkOuNn6RAR06grwbcqc1q55rLIRB7qnHRQu4MgALFeDHrUxAfL4B2YjeeKe_TlWgj2pkiH4mUYI61HGGI5I3SbwB6VwlQWfaR5ca_yI9W-ys9sPYJXGns/s1600/2011_0507forgettechurch0036.JPG" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" height="320" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEglFuJSfww0rX-63P81gtWrPIhkOuNn6RAR06grwbcqc1q55rLIRB7qnHRQu4MgALFeDHrUxAfL4B2YjeeKe_TlWgj2pkiH4mUYI61HGGI5I3SbwB6VwlQWfaR5ca_yI9W-ys9sPYJXGns/s320/2011_0507forgettechurch0036.JPG" width="240" /></a></div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: large;"><br />
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<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: large;">It's the end of a good Sunday service and I'm feeling like my spiritual batteries have been recharged. The pastor extends the invitation for all to join in the fellowship hall for the monthly,"Pot Luck" lunch. Ah! Time to play indigestion roulette again. I start the journey down the hall, knowing "IT" will be in there. You know what I'm talking about. It's the dreaded "HOT DISH"! </span><br />
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<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: large;">Nature has provided us with warning signs of dangerous plants and animals. It might be a bright color or the rattle of a snake's tail. So too, there are warning signs to look for at a pot luck table.</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: large;">The greasy Tater Tots on the surface preview what lurks below. A gray congealed mass of ground mystery meat and </span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: large;">condensed, gray soup, rice and maybe some green particles. Perhaps they were green beans at one time. </span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: large;">T</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: large;">he fact is, looking down the table at a pot luck is similar to picking your way though a food mine field. Each contributor has provided their favorite dish. Some delish some </span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: large;">guaranteed to be with you for the rest of the day, or worse. </span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: large;">Your decision making skills are critical at this point unless you have the digestive system of a stray bulldog.</span><br />
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<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: large;">OK, I've just been messin with ya. But tell the truth, you could all relate to the picture, right? Let's take a closer look at the real ingredients found in God's recipe.</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: large;">The other side of the story is that someone took the time to make a dish to share with others. Maybe this put a strain on their food budget but they wanted to provide something to do their part. Could be that someone is going through a really tough or devastating time in their life but felt the need to make something for their church family. And of course, the person who just really did make something with love, to share with people they love. Keeping that in mind, I always make a point of taking a portion from a dish that no one is touching. The thought of the disappointment the maker of the dish would feel, if it went untouched, overcomes my fear of gastric disturbance. </span><br />
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<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: large;">After all, it's not really about the food. Fellowship is the key ingredient to the main dish. A chance to gather with your church family and share not only food but the very presence of God. To minister to each other by sharing what's going on in our lives and being supportive of the peaks and valleys we all go through. Fellowship is more than just getting together for social purposes. The Fellowship of Believers goes back to the Apostles in the early days of the church. Acts 2:42-47 speaks of "teaching", "breaking bread" and "prayer". These are all key elements of fellowship. This scripture also tells us that fellowship is not just for your church fellowship hall. Acts 2:46-47(NIV) goes on to tell us, "They broke bread in their homes and ate together with glad and sincere hearts, praising God and enjoying the favor of all the people. And the Lord added daily those who were being saved." </span><br />
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<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: large;">The bottom line here is, don't fear the dreaded "HOT DISH" as you approach the food line at your next pot luck event. Just jump on in there and load up your plate. As a friend of mine would say while facing adversity, "You gotta just suck it up buttercup!" Besides, the getting together with your church family is what it's all about. So, go back for seconds and have take another serving of love. This dish is better than the finest gourmet meal you will ever have. </span>Bobhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/13402267185036231974noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2227140724550163816.post-8789054011784598982011-05-23T06:27:00.000-04:002011-05-23T06:27:24.708-04:00Has anyone seen "Someone"?<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"></div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">Last year I had the opportunity to lead the worship service while our pastor was away. I think he used what must be a term used in the pastor trade. He needed, "Pulpit filler". Kind of seemed like terminology I heard used in the Army. When there was a need you might hear your favorite NCO say, "I need a warm body!". This meant there was a task to be done and the qualifications were that you were alive. Also, the term "cannon fodder" came to mind. Anyway, here was my chance to whip some guilt on the congregation. Pastors shy away from the guilt thing sometimes but I had nothing to lose. I started by asking the congregation a question. "Maybe you can help me. I've been looking all over the place for a member of our congregation that people keep asking for. The members name is apparently, 'Someone'. It would seem this member is very popular and able to multi-task. People keep coming to me with concerns, projects and suggestions. The conversation always begins with, 'Someone' should do this or that project. 'Someone' should tell the pastor something. 'Someone' should start this program. 'Someone' should do something about...................etc." I went on to explain that when I give the person a questioning look and ask if in fact they might be, "Someone", the response is usually "Oh! I didn't mean me! About this time I noticed some uncomfortable squirming going on in the pews. Maybe a guilt seed was starting to take root?</span><br />
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<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">It seemed safe to push on a little farther. No one had walked out and no one had thrown anything at me. Moving closer to the edge, I tossed the dreaded "V" word at them and then the granddaddy of all words heard in a church, the dreaded "C" word! Yup, I zapped them with two of the biggies, "VOLUNTEER" and "COMMITMENT". (As far as I know the only other word that might cause more anxiety would be tithing.) However, I couldn't take a chance of using all three as they were between me and the exit. To cut to the chase, I wasn't trying to air my pet peeves to the congregation but rather to just remind them that in joining any church, we are making a "commitment" not only to God but to our church family. Part of that commitment is to share the load, not just by parking your backside in the pews on Sunday mornings, but volunteering when help is needed. So, think hard about launching yourself out of that comfort zone. You just might surprise yourself at what you are capable of doing. The rewards can be fantastic.</span><br />
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<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">If you've been kind enough to read all the way to this point I thank you. I was having a little fun with this but it is a problem in most churches and most organizations. Just a hand-full of people usually pull most of the weight. They don't complain, but it would sure put a smile on their faces to see more people taking an interest in their church. If you are a member of a church, take a little time to realize just how blessed you are to have a church family. You have people that will be there to share your joys and to be there when you hurt. So, the rewards of serving God by loving and supporting the people you worship with isn't a task, it is a joy. This wasn't my idea by any means. The need for volunteers goes back to the beginning. Think back to the days of Isaiah. <b>Isaiah 6:8</b> Then I heard the voice of the Lord saying, "Whom shall I send? And who will go for us?" And I said, "Here am I. Send me!" (NIV) </span><br />
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<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">We finished that service with one of my favorite hymns, Here I am Lord. I'm certainly not egotistical enough to think I had anything to do with it but in the past year I have finally seen "Someone" in action around our church. "Someone", is showing up to help more and more.</span><br />
<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">Maybe it's just another example of planting some seeds and watching God make them grow.</span><br />
<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">I have been blessed with a truly wonderful church family. So, think about that comfort zone you are stuck in. Maybe the volunteer and commitment thing might be far more rewarding than you think. We'll get to the comfort zone hang up in another post. So what was the end result? Well,</span><br />
<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">I discovered that as more people decided to become active in the church, the more rewards they found in volunteering and the church became more alive. You could feel the change.</span><br />
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<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">So what do you think? Sound like your church? Care to share some ideas or experiences about church commitment?</span>Bobhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/13402267185036231974noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2227140724550163816.post-42097644972310975482011-05-19T06:32:00.001-04:002011-05-23T06:34:47.580-04:00THE SECULAR ASSAULT<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjYZRgpWLuWpddLp-qfL5GNccPDRah-PrCro3NumU4YjnL2VdnRD-PNbzJxhCXc9mNUF6wnW4SIj650GpqkiUQKVR_ZuAogUCuTrVv9xB1GS9LRc6iZkAw8IcttErH_zBmA2aaYuKs-vq0/s1600/2011_0507forgettechurch0039.JPG" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" height="320" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjYZRgpWLuWpddLp-qfL5GNccPDRah-PrCro3NumU4YjnL2VdnRD-PNbzJxhCXc9mNUF6wnW4SIj650GpqkiUQKVR_ZuAogUCuTrVv9xB1GS9LRc6iZkAw8IcttErH_zBmA2aaYuKs-vq0/s320/2011_0507forgettechurch0039.JPG" width="240" /></a></div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: large;"><br />
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<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: large;">We are at a point where Christian beliefs and values are considered fair game for ridicule and criticism from many elements of the secular world. Much of this trend is agenda driven by the poisonous drivel that is political correctness and socialist ideology. </span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: large;">Unfortunately, in many cases instead of confronting the secular world and and it's progressive effort to neutralize faith there seems to be a good deal of apathy.</span><br />
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<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: large;">We are assaulted daily by a technological stream of drek that has dulled our sensitivity to the immoral, the violent and even the criminal acts in our society. Not much shocks us anymore. There is a sense of, oh well, nothing I can do about it. That's where the bad guy is getting a strong foothold. It's a slow, insidious form of evil creeping into our lives and before we know it, we've gone over to the dark side thinking it's the normal way of life. You can see it in all aspects of daily life. Schools, books, movies, TV and music for starters. Then there is Big Brother Government where secularism has become their god of power and greed. You get to feeling that you are the only one left that cares. </span><br />
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<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: large;"></span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: large;">So, just how do we </span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: large;">stomp this beastie back into it's hole so it will wither away? </span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: large;">You know very well where to start. The remedy starts within you, guided by the Holy Spirit.</span><br />
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<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: large;">JUST FOLLOW YOUR ORDERS!</span><br />
<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: large;">In "The Great Commission", Jesus commanded the disciples to "go and make disciples of all nations, baptizing them in the name of the Father and of the son and of the Holy Spirit, and teaching them to obey everything I have commanded you." (Matthew 28:19-20) In other words we are to ALL be evangelists! Now that means different things to different people and different denominations. </span><br />
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<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: large;">CHRISTIAN SOLDIERS OR EXTREMISTS?</span><br />
<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: large;">The secular media portrays evangelists as crazed zealots running around screaming scripture at people and forcing "radical" puritanical life styles on the public. Now I find those who share their faith by making what is known in the business world as "cold calls" and knocking on doors to share the Word of God well intentioned. No doubt, they are walking the walk as they see it. However, in many cases, in your face evangelism, can be counter productive and in some cases even push people away from coming to know Jesus.</span><br />
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<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: large;">YOU CAN'T FORCE FEED THE GOSPEL!</span><br />
<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: large;">From my personal experience, in my younger (stupid) days, I lived in an area where I shared a driveway with three other neighbors. A beautiful spot in the north woods with lots of tall pine trees and a small river running through the front yard. Occasionally, a man would pull into the driveway, pass the other houses and stop at my door with his young son. When I opened the door, the young lad would read me scripture and the father would hand me a religious tract and discuss scripture. I would listen politely and promptly deposit the tract in the garbage can before they had left the driveway. I often wondered why they would not stop at the neighbors. I felt I was being force fed scripture even though it was well meant. I didn't know, at the time, they were fulfilling their obligation to the Lord to "make disciples of all nations." My Christian walk had not really started back then. One day I was in the garage when they pulled into the driveway and headed for my door. I was working on my motorcycle, with a nice pyramid of empty beer cans near me with what was, I suppose, the worst form of rock music of the time blasting away. Needless to say, we did not share anything that day and I never saw them again. Their approach pushed me farther from God. I did not want to be force fed scripture and it also sent me the message that apparently I was no longer the type of person they wanted to share God's word with. I found Christ on my own, after having the seeds planted in my youth by a loving Grandmother who encouraged me to pray, and read the Bible, and The Upper Room. It didn't take back then but there came a time of searching and it all went back to the example she set for me by planting the seeds of faith.</span><br />
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<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: large;">"PREACH THE GOSPEL TO EVERYONE. BUT, TRY NOT TO USE WORDS."</span><br />
<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: large;">That quote jumped out at me while listening, I believe, to Ravi Zacharias. I didn't hear if it was his quote or if it was from another source but it was powerful. That quote just nails it. Be a living example by the way you live your life and how you treat and serve those around you! You will be planting the seeds of the Gospel and gaining the trust of the people you are trying to reach. Once you gain the trust and confidence in others, the door opens to actually sharing God's word. People will want some of that "living water" that Jesus gives us. There is no more powerful tool to counter the secular assault we face everyday than to be a living example of the teaching of Jesus Christ. A big order indeed, and I'm not sure I measure up to it. But, remember, God is there to help us accomplish things we never thought we could do. And, maybe we just might have to force ourselves out of that cozy, safe little comfort zone.</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: large;"> </span><br />
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</span>Bobhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/13402267185036231974noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2227140724550163816.post-17407916080845603502011-05-09T20:38:00.005-04:002011-05-23T06:33:12.113-04:00Blast Out Of Your Comfort Zone<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEg4tgPRw-r0DR7CxH5CMo63cwhE_5ShxGS-UlR5Lmbd3gNqWlH7CZYtu_sXNuBMeI7ujWmYUUmem0Ug2IXvJOfJKmt8G6E7mKpqV0oOD0zucP_RCdOcDwaaM2dt1f327j4ezPjJr09kTP8/s1600/2011_0507forgettechurch0033.JPG" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" height="200" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEg4tgPRw-r0DR7CxH5CMo63cwhE_5ShxGS-UlR5Lmbd3gNqWlH7CZYtu_sXNuBMeI7ujWmYUUmem0Ug2IXvJOfJKmt8G6E7mKpqV0oOD0zucP_RCdOcDwaaM2dt1f327j4ezPjJr09kTP8/s200/2011_0507forgettechurch0033.JPG" width="150" /></a></div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"></span><br />
<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">I can't do that! No way! I've never done THAT before! Oh, I'm not smart enough to handle that project. I've never gone to that area before. I can't speak in front of an audience. Horsehockey!</span><br />
<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">What you "can't" do is crawl out of that restrictive comfort zone you have built for yourself. This warm fuzzy little place is safe but if you step out of it you might be what? Embarrassed? You might fail? Yes, we don't have to worry, quite as much, in life if we don't do anything that we might not succeed at. How very safe, but dull and unrewarding life can be if we stay within that safe little womb we call our comfort zone.</span><br />
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<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">BE ALL THAT YOU CAN BE!</span><br />
<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">That used to be an Army recruiting slogan. But that is what escaping from your rut or comfort zone is all about. In this case, the comfort zone I am talking about is within your church. So many of us have this fear of failure or being unqualified to serve just because we have never tried to serve in certain areas. But if you just push yourself past that comfort zone you might be surprised at what you can accomplish, and the rewards are awesome. On a personal note, I used to have a major fear of public speaking. I would rather have had rabid fire ants dumped in my shorts than to get up and speak in front of a group. The very thought of standing if front of the congregation and speaking made my stomach churn and my eyes bug,to say nothing of developing soggy pits. Having a supportive pastor who pushed me out of my comfort zone helped me see that yes, I could do some public speaking and guess what? </span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">I didn't explode. I wasn't ridiculed, and no, I didn't pass out from the fear of making a mistake. The point being, we all have our little fears, phobias and self doubts about our abilities. But many times if we just push ourselves to try something new, we find out that YES, we can do it. We can serve in ways we didn't think we could serve our church.</span><br />
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<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">YOU'RE NOT ALONE!</span><br />
<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">Paul reminds us in 1 Corinthians 12:30 the we all have specific talents to offer. His analogy of the church being a body of many parts tells us we all can contribute to the whole body. Does that mean the if we do summon up the courage to step out of our comfort zone and try something new that we won't fail? No way, Sunshine! So what if we do fail? Give something else a try. The main thing is to not </span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">be afraid because you are not facing change alone. God is there to guide and protect you. </span><br />
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<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">I'M NOT CONVINCED! I HATE CHANGE.</span><br />
<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">The obscure little prayer found in 1 Chronicles 4:10 has changed lives and attitudes about service. Most of you know it as the Prayer of Jabez. I pray it daily. If your are not familiar with it, </span><br />
<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">Jabez calls upon God to "bless me indeed, and enlarge my territory". But it goes on to ask that God be with him when he steps out to explore new opportunities. "that your hand be with me". Then Jabez also asks, "and that you keep me from evil", asking God to protect him from those who would act against the path of service God has provided. Finally, Jabez asks for protection from acts he might commit against others in his mission for God. "That I may cause no pain".</span><br />
<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">I would strongly recommend the book by Bruce Wilkinson, Beyond Jabez. What a great lesson in getting out of your comfort zone by connecting with The Prayer of Jabez. Another wonderful source for learning why you should get out of your comfort zone is Pastor Rick Warren's book, A Purpose Driven Life.</span><br />
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<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">REWARDS!</span><br />
<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">The point of this little rant has been to tell you if I can climb out of my cozy little safe comfort zone, anybody can. There was no doubt in my mind that if I tried public speaking in any form, the sky would fall and I would grow warts in places where warts are not supposed to grow or I would be struck down on the spot by lightning and eaten by large carnivores. Actually, after forcing my way through my first attempt at public speaking I found that in fact, I was going to live and people actually said I did a good job. Whew! All that worry and sweat for nothing! So, be it speaking, teaching, helping with cooking, working with church finance, helping with Sunday School or serving with a community help group, get off your backside and give it your best shot. What's the worst that can happen? You fail? So what? We all fail. It's not a bad thing, God just points us in another direction. Trust me, God has plenty of options for your abilities. TRUST HIM!</span>Bobhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/13402267185036231974noreply@blogger.com0